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Female dominance foreplay is seductive. Most females have a dominant gene and like controlling a guy and establishing the scene in BDSM. Many men love the notion of being controlled and dominated by a powerful woman. Thus, we’ve selected some of the greatest punishment & BDSM scenario ideas.

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It’s the role reversal of women being in charge that turns guys hot. It needn’t be complicated. Mild BDSM might divide sex lives.

Where to begin?

What activities can you do?

Read on for 20 kinky sex play ideas.

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1 Blindfold
This may appear modest and not really BDSM-related, yet it’s one of the scene’s most fundamental acts. Removing one of a person’s senses gives you partial control, which heightens the others.

Endorphins released by anticipation make the scene sensual. If your spouse is blindfolded, you can tease, harass, or punish them.

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Bdsm 101: Handcuffs. Since handcuffs were introduced, partners have been handcuffed to beds. Using them removes a person’s capacity to stop you from doing whatever you want to them. Losing control and being at someone’s mercy is incredibly sexy. Try scarves and ropes.

Spanking
Another S&M classic. As a nerve junction for the body, the ass is a pleasure spot. You can spank him over your knee with your hand, a hairbrush, a wooden spoon, or a paddle if you’re both dedicated players.

Use mild, delicate strokes until you reach your tolerance. OTK spankings are humiliating, which turns men on. Whatever works as an aphrodisiac or punishment. You may also have him stand in the corner for a while.

Power shift
Give up control and let the other person run your life. Do as they say Foot rubs, back rubs, sexual pleasure, anything they want. It’s necessary to set limits and dos and don’ts so you both enjoy the session, but giving control is a great feeling.

Roleplaying
BDSM and femdom are difficult for many, especially those in partnerships. They fight abuse or submission. Roleplaying helps individuals “go outside” of themselves and be someone else. Roleplay situations are unlimited. You can be a domineering employer to a suffering employee, a cop assaulting a suspect, or a boss with a powerful secretary, teacher, or student. Limits and acceptance must be determined beforehand. Fantasy roleplay ideas

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7. Cuckolding
Popular dream, but start cautiously. A cuckolding fantasy might range from her saying she wants to sleep with actual guys to actively sleeping with other men.

Start by discussing what she’ll do with other men. Dressing sexily and flirting with guys follows. Hearing the specifics or watching her flirt might be a turn-on, but it can be hard to take back. Have fun finding your limit. See live cuckold cams.

Public Embarrassment
Public humiliation may solidify a power exchange for those prepared to test the limits.

To humiliate a sub in public and allow yourself to be humiliated is a BDSM honour. It can range from wearing a collar and lead in public (perhaps through the garments and through a small hole in the pocket), shouting at him in public (possibly including smacking his face and making him apologise loudly), to making him kiss your feet in public.

9-Humiliation
If public humiliation or degradation isn’t for you, try private. Making a sub kiss your ass, slap his face, deny his freedom to talk, or eat off the floor is femdom 101.

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10-Puppy Play
Puppy play is a moderate type of BDSM. Mistress is the sub’s owner. The Domina will have pleasure playing with her “pet” as he begs, plays dead, has his stomach rubbed, plays fetch, and gets his ear stroked.

Puppy play ranges from a collar to a full dog costume. Start gradually and see where it goes.

11- Nips – Nipple torture
Male nipples are worthless and sensitive, so why not torture them during s&m? You can twist, bite, attach clothes pegs, clamps, twine, and rub them till they ache. Frustrate him

12-Cock-and-ball torture
Another multilevel game. From a mild slap to a full-on punch, to tying a rope around them to placing pins and needles through the skin, a man’s cock and balls are his most sensitive area, hence CBT is where it is most effective.

Careful! A soft cock can withstand the assault, but an erect cock is fragile. Use clothes pegs on his cock, smacking his balls with a wooden spoon, or pound his nuts (might not sound like much but believe me, this HURTS)

Hair-pulling
Hair pulling is an excellent type of humiliation that stops backtalk and conflict. You may guide his head by pulling him to his knees. Between your legs for oral sex, kissing your feet, or worshipping your arse. Or you might scold him and call him names for his indiscretion.

Face-slapping
Slapping his face is another effective humiliation technique. Making him stand there while you smack, shout, or laugh will establish authority. This is a terrific deterrent and an excellent approach to punishing him if he displeases you.

15- Feminization
Forcing a straight man to wear women’s clothes is a major humiliation and turn-on. From your pants to a bra and knicker set to high heels, skirts, stockings, suspenders, wig, and cosmetics, you may have a lot of fun dressing him up femininely against his will.

Tease and Deny
Men are cocky. Use their need for relief once erect to your advantage. Tie him to a bed or chair and touch his cock, suck it, rub it, tickle his balls, run a feather over it, scratch his cock head, and do whatever turns him on. Don’t relieve him. Make him squirm and beg to cum, but don’t. Keep taunting and holding him.

Pegging
Pegging entails a woman wearing a strap on her dildo and fucking a man with it. Embarrassing for him, yet sexy and a fantastic method to express power transition and give the female control.

18-Orgasm
Giving him a time constraint to attain orgasm complements number 16 above. Tease him, then tell him he has 30 seconds to cum, but you can twist his nipples or swat his balls.

After 30 seconds, tease him some more. Repeat. Then give him 15 seconds to cum. If he fails, deprive him. There are hundreds of more ways to play. Orgasm denial, Jerk off instruction, ruined orgasm and post-orgasm torture to name but a few different ways. You could also introduce a chastity

19 Joke
Gagging is my thing. Use pantyhose, a rag, or a BDSM ball gag. Anything to stop his shouts or groans from ruining your fun and stopping him from responding.

20- Force them to beg and plead
According to number 16, guys think with their cocks, so make him beg for relief while he’s aroused and desperate. He’ll be so hot and desperate he can’t refuse, but the shame will last.

Hearing him pleading will entertain you. Laugh as he begs, presses your palm to his pulsating dick, and patronises him.

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